{"id":34221,"date":"2017-06-21T00:10:41","date_gmt":"2017-06-21T05:10:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/josh.org\/?p=34221"},"modified":"2025-08-05T15:19:22","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T20:19:22","slug":"pesky-feelings-god-sees-you","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/pesky-feelings-god-sees-you\/","title":{"rendered":"Pesky Feelings: See Yourself as God Sees You"},"content":{"rendered":"
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Ladies, in this post in our series exploring our true identity<\/a>, let’s touch on a REALLY touchy topic: our feelings. Oh, how much trouble these pesky critters cause us.<\/strong><\/h3>\n

I know first-hand<\/em> that some of us are genetically hardwired for\u00a0sensitivity; that some of us feel everything so deeply<\/em> that even sappy\u00a0commercials (like this one!<\/a>) send us running\u00a0for Kleenex.<\/p>\n

But it’s important for us to remember that God tells us to take our emotions captive \u2014 to halt our “Stinkin’ Thinkin’<\/a>” \u2014 when our thoughts and feelings spiral us into darkness.<\/p>\n

Have you, like me, gone after a job and didn’t land it? Have you ever hoped to make a team, earn an award, slide into a relationship \u2014 but were ignored or rejected? It hurts, right? And when we’re hurting it can be a challenge\u00a0<\/em>to then believe in our self-worth and value.<\/p>\n

What\u00a0areas of your life tend to spiral your feelings into the muck?<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Ain’t Nothing Good About Comparison<\/h2>\n

“If I were that pretty, I’d have a wonderful boyfriend, too.” \u00a0<\/em>
\n “If I were better at networking, I’d have her job.” <\/em>
\n“If I were funny like her, I’d get invited to the cool parties, too.” <\/em>
\n“If I were sweet like her, they’d love me more.”
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\nWhen my friend Mindy recently tried on a swimsuit in a department store dressing room, she told me that got “real grumpy” that it was perfectly obvious<\/em>\u00a0that no one would\u00a0mistake her <\/em>for being actress Elle Macpherson’s body double. When Mindy later made the “mistake” of watching yet another sappy Hallmark movie, she got even grumpier. “I want Elle’s body!” she cried. “I want Prince Charming, too!”
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\nMindy admitted that on some days she gets downright jelly of the gals with perfect bodies and seemingly perfect “plus-ones.” Does that make Mindy shallow? No. It makes her normal, given the influences of our secular world<\/a>. But Mindy’s coveting what she does not have places her in bondage, which is not God’s plan for her.<\/em><\/p>\n

We truly need to believe, as God says in His word, that we each \u2014 despite our self-perceived flaws and lacking \u2014 have tremendous value simply because He created us and loves us.<\/strong><\/p>\n

We can’t let our joy and satisfaction in life be determined by our appearance, our marital status, or any other competitive benchmark we set for ourselves.<\/p>\n

God did NOT put us on this planet to be constantly comparing ourselves\u00a0to others. He put us\u00a0here to partner with Him<\/em> to become our UNIQUE, best selves. We are one-of-a-kind creations, and we have the once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to put our unique gifts and talents to good use every day that He gives us breath.<\/p>\n

Alas, we’re all so skilled at playing the comparison game that it can become our default. Haven’t we been practicing the game for a loooooooooooong time? Probably at least since kindergarten, when societal conditioning begins to seriously mess with our heads about our value.<\/p>\n

We have to remember that what God tells us in His Word is trustworthy. Our feelings, on the other hand, are NOT.<\/p>\n

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Feelings Are Fickle<\/h2>\n

Here’s the skinny: our feelings are FICKLE! Which means there’s a HIGH chance they’re NOT one bit true, even on a good day when the sun is shining and birds are chirping overhead.<\/p>\n

Feel yourself unloveable?<\/em> The Bible tells us that God’s love for us is high, wide, deep, and unceasing.<\/p>\n

Feel yourself unforgiven?<\/em> The Bible tells us that God forgives us the nanosecond we ask. And then forgets our sin!<\/p>\n

Feel yourself not accepted?<\/em> The Bible tells us that God’s arms are EVER open, ready to wrap us in the most amazing love hug. God is working, daily, to bring us back to Him.<\/p>\n

Feel yourself uglier than a toad?<\/em> The Bible tells us that God, the creator of all, sees our true beauty. In His eyes, we shine!<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

These truths are one reason God tells us to plug our brains into His Word DAILY. To memorize its truth, so that we have scripture to fight back with when the devil perches on our shoulder to whisper lies into our ear. Beat it, liar!
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\nGod is ALWAYS for us, no matter what the devil would have us believe. God offers us understanding, grace, and unlimited second chances\u2014which means we can cut ourselves some slack, too.\u00a0<\/em>The Bible tells us that we UNLEASH spiritual power when we\u00a0speak God’s Word out loud. And that when we praise God our spirits can’t help but lift\u2014even when our feelings nearly have us convinced that we’ve tumbled to rock bottom and can’t rise again.
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\nIn Psalm 42 this refrain is mentioned TWICE: Why, my soul, are you downcast? Why so disturbed within me? Put your hope in God, for I will yet praise Him, my Savior and my God.
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\nPsalm 37 is a great scriptures to say aloud when you’re needing to put the brakes on your emotional rollercoaster. Claim the promises in verses 23 and 24: The Lord makes firm the steps of the one who delights in Him; though he may stumble, he will not fall, for the Lord upholds him with His hand.
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\nWhen your feelings try to get the best of you, correct your stinking thinking by choosing to believe this truth: no matter how badly we might feel about ourselves, God wants us to remind us of how valuable we are to Him. Look at\u00a0how Christian writer Max Lucado describes God’s ceaseless affection for us:<\/p>\n

God is for YOU.\u00a0Not “may be,” not “has been,” not “was,” not “would be,” but “God is!” He is for you. Today. And this hour. At this minute. As you read this sentence. No need to wait in line or come back tomorrow. He is with you. He could not be closer than He is at this second. His loyalty won’t increase if you are better nor lessen if you are worse. HE IS FOR YOU.<\/em><\/p><\/blockquote>\n

The next time your feelings try to take you to a dark place, recite this truth out loud! Then head to your Bible to recite verses that speak to you of God’s constant care. We must take our thoughts captive. We might feel<\/em> like we’re alone, or unloved, but we never are. AMEN!<\/p>\n

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Our True Personal Identity<\/h2>\n

Part of rightly understanding our true personal identity requires that we know how God sees us. As our loving creator, God says two things to us: “You are my child,” and “You are chosen<\/a>.”\u00a0Do you sense God’s heart toward you?<\/em> Can you wrap you mind around the truth that God was thinking about you before He even created the world?<\/p>\n

Let that truth sink into the depth of your heart and mind. It may take a lot of determination on your part, but as you begin to realize just how valuable you are in God’s eyes, you will be able to break the chains that keep you from accepting and loving yourself. Ladies, we CAN drop the burden of what other people think \u2014 and the judgments we hold for ourselves.<\/p>\n

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This blog series is based on Josh’s book\u00a0See Yourself as God Sees You<\/strong><\/a>.\u00a0<\/i>It is our prayer that during this series you come to recognize and accept your true personal identity! God couldn’t love you more!<\/p>\n

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