{"id":48929,"date":"2019-04-22T00:18:41","date_gmt":"2019-04-22T05:18:41","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/?p=48929"},"modified":"2025-08-05T15:57:44","modified_gmt":"2025-08-05T20:57:44","slug":"jnot-worthless-sinner","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/jnot-worthless-sinner\/","title":{"rendered":"Your Identity: Are You a &#8220;Worthless Sinner&#8221;?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div><h2 class=\"p1\">For most of my life I believed I was a worthless sinner, only <em>tolerated<\/em> by God because of Jesus\u2019 work on the cross.<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Sure, I \u201cknew\u201d that God loved me, but I believed that I was still a \u201cwretch\u201d with minimal value.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Throughout my years in ministry, I\u2019ve known many missionaries, college students, men, and women who also view themselves this way, whether consciously or subconsciously. Perhaps you default to holding a similar view? That, at a conscious level, you believe you have little to no value? That there\u2019s something <em>inherently<\/em> wrong with who you are? That you\u2019ll never fit in, and never measure up? That you&#8217;re a failure? <em>And that God agrees, seeing no more value in you than the trash you threw out last night?<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>Even if you don\u2019t consciously hold these views about yourself, they might still operate in your life on a subconscious level. Because throughout life, especially in our early years, we look to people\u2019s actions and words to define our value.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Have you been bullied or rejected by others? Have you experienced conditional acceptance &#8212; gaining the approval of others <em>only<\/em> when you &#8220;performed&#8221; as they wanted you to? Perhaps you felt the rejection of a sibling who was constantly annoyed with you, or a parent who was physically or emotionally absent. Or, perhaps, as you were growing up, you weren\u2019t allowed to express your opinions or they were belittled.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>All of these scenarios, intentional or not, can communicate that we lack value, leading us to develop negative core beliefs about our worth. This, in a word, is <a href=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/why-god-no-shame\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">shame<\/a> \u2013 believing \u201cI am bad\u201d or that \u201csomething is wrong with who I am.\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-48944 alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2019\/04\/self-image-2-e1555460052922-1024x683.jpg\" alt=\"worthless sinner\" width=\"538\" height=\"359\" \/><\/p>\n<h2 class=\"p1\">Your Self-Image Is Revealed Through Your Actions<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">We reveal what we believe about ourselves through our thoughts and actions. Do you find yourself procrastinating on tasks, or getting overwhelmed and dreading failure? Do you find yourself getting angry when someone disagrees with, rejects, or embarrasses you? Do you fear conflict, or find yourself trying to make others happy and doing whatever it takes to \u201ckeep the peace\u201d?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">These reactions reveal negative core beliefs you hold about your worth, otherwise known as low self-worth or low self-esteem. If we\u2019re honest, most of us would admit to struggling with our self-esteem to some extent. If we <em>truly believed<\/em> we are of great value, we would be steadfast in who we were created to be. We wouldn\u2019t struggle so heavily with these scenarios that reveal our fears, anger, and ways of attempting to manage our value. So, is the solution to just try to develop better self-esteem?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>Pop psychology tells us to just believe in ourselves; to essentially just try harder to <em>think positively<\/em> about ourselves. But there\u2019s a significant problem with this method. What we desperately need is an objective and universal standard of value from <em>an outside source, <\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/why-god-offers-radical-acceptance\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">not a subjective source<\/a> such as people&#8217;s opinions or even our own<em>.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 class=\"p1\">God Sets Your True Value<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>The solution to our struggle of knowing and accepting our worth comes from seeing ourselves as God sees us. <\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We need to truly believe, deep down in our heart, who God says we are. To live out of new core beliefs that change the way we think, behave, and operate. To know who we are as image bearers of God. To truly believe He specifically made each and every one of us to be unique. It&#8217;s why we all have different personalities, gifts, and talents (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm+139%3A13-14&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Psalm 139:13-14<\/a><\/strong>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We are made in the image of God (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/genesis\/1-27.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Genesis 1:27<\/a><\/strong>), meaning that we, unlike animals or other aspects of creation, are given <em>distinct<\/em> dignity and value. The very breath of God breathed life into us, as human beings (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblestudytools.com\/commentaries\/gills-exposition-of-the-bible\/genesis-2-7.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Genesis 2:7<\/a><\/strong>). God created us and said, \u201cIt is very good\u201d (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/genesis\/1-31.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Genesis 1:31<\/a><\/strong>). The entire earth has been entrusted to us to rule and reign over (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.bibleref.com\/Genesis\/1\/Genesis-1-28.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Genesis 1:28<\/a><\/strong>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">When mankind chose to sin and turn away from God, the first thing God did was come after us to restore the broken relationship (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Genesis+3-9&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Genesis 3:9<\/a><\/strong>). <em>Our turning away from God never changed our worth or God\u2019s love for us.<\/em> Once sin entered the world and we were born sinful by nature (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Psalm+51%3A5&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Psalm 51:5<\/a><\/strong>), we never ceased to be created in the image of God (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Genesis+9%3A6&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Genesis 9:6<\/a><\/strong>). <em>Our inherent value never changed. Amazing!<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">I love how <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/psalms\/17-8.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Psalm 17:8<\/a><\/strong> expresses God\u2019s love and affection toward us. It says, \u201cKeep me as the apple of your eye; hide me in the shadow of your wings.\u201d At face value, that may not seem to carry much weight. But the Hebrew word for \u201capple\u201d literally means \u201clittle man.\u201d When you stand close enough to someone, you see a tiny reflection of yourself in their pupils. You see yourself as the \u201capple\u201d of their eyes. In this Psalm, David is saying this is who you are to God. You are the little man reflected in God\u2019s eyes.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong><em>You are always in His vision. You are always the object of his affection and obsession. This is how much you are loved and valued.<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 class=\"p1\">God Doesn&#8217;t Just Tolerate You<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Jesus didn\u2019t go to the cross to be tortured, die, and defeat death for the sake of trash. In love, He went to the cross to redeem and restore a relationship that was lost. One of the most well-known verses in Scripture says it plainly, in John 3:16: \u201cFor God so loved the world, that He sent His only son&#8230;\u201d <strong>God doesn\u2019t merely tolerate or love you as a result of Christ\u2019s work on the cross. <em>Rather, His love was the fuel for Christ\u2019s work. <\/em><\/strong>Whether or not we choose to follow Christ, God has radical love for us and deems us to be of great value.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">When we seek forgiveness and reconciliation with God, we experience the thriving life we were meant to live. One of knowing God deeply and being known by Him. As a result of Jesus\u2019 work on the cross, we are adopted into His family (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/ephesians\/1-5.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Ephesians 1:5<\/a><\/strong>), approved of and accepted (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/romans\/15-7.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Romans 15:7<\/a><\/strong>), made right in God\u2019s eyes and blameless (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/romans\/3-28.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Romans 3:28<\/a><\/strong>), becoming an indispensable part of His kingdom work (<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/1_corinthians\/12-22.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">1 Corinthians 12:22<\/a><\/strong>).<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">We see this clearly when Jesus prayed to God the Father saying, \u201cYou sent me and loved them even as you loved me\u201d (<a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/john\/17-23.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>John 17:2<\/strong>3<\/a>b). What an amazing reality!<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>God: &#8220;You&#8217;re Not a Worthless Sinner&#8221;<\/h2>\n<p><strong>Think about this: If we could get value from our performance, then Jesus died in vain.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Performance is the essence of man-made religion, which teaches us to &#8220;do good&#8221; in an attempt to be loved by God. But what Christianity teaches is that since <em>we are already loved by God<\/em>, we do good as a result. We don\u2019t do good in order to earn God\u2019s love, we do good in response to His amazing love. Attempting to perform to get our worth from others will always end in futility.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Jesus\u2019 whole mission on earth was to live the perfect life that we could never live, fully obeying God the Father, and then die, taking the punishment and separation from God that we deserve as a result of our turning from God. Jesus already received the approval of God for us. <em>It is done.<\/em> Through Jesus, we can be fully loved and fully approved of by God.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Seek Him. He Loves You. You Were Made For This.<\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">If you&#8217;re a Christian, rest in your value as an image-bearer, and your identity as a son or daughter adopted into His family. Dwell on who God says you are and how much He values you. You\u2019re not defined by what you\u2019ve done to yourself or others. And you&#8217;re definitely not defined by what\u2019s been done to you.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/resolution-reaching-a-generation-with-wholeness\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">You are not a worthless sinner<\/a>. You\u2019re defined ONLY by the value and identity God gives you. Meditate on times in your life where you have felt His love and experienced His acceptance.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">If you&#8217;re not yet a follower of Jesus, you need to know God loves you, unconditionally, just as you are, and desires so much to be known by you. At this very moment, in fact, He is offering you an invitation to enter into a personal relationship with Him. He wants you to experience the depth of His love, to know and live into your purpose, and to experience His forgiveness. As <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/1_timothy\/2-4.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">1 Timothy 2:4<\/a><\/strong>\u00a0says, God \u201cdesires all people to be saved and to come to the knowledge of the truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<p><strong>For more on knowing God personally, <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/resources\/spiritual-growth\/know-god\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">check out this really good info<\/a>.<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h5>Ben Bennett is an author and communicator with Josh McDowell Ministry, and the director of the Ministry&#8217;s <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/resolutionmovement.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Resolution Movement<\/a><\/strong>.<\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>For most of my life I believed I was a worthless sinner, only tolerated by God because of Jesus\u2019 work on the cross. Sure, I \u201cknew\u201d that God loved me, but I believed that I was still a \u201cwretch\u201d with minimal value. Throughout my years in ministry, I\u2019ve known many missionaries, college students, men, and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23327,"featured_media":48944,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"57","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"You might struggle with believing you're a \"worthless\" sinner. 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