{"id":52707,"date":"2020-03-10T10:54:03","date_gmt":"2020-03-10T15:54:03","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/?p=52707"},"modified":"2025-08-06T12:33:34","modified_gmt":"2025-08-06T17:33:34","slug":"breaking-out-christian-bubble","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/breaking-out-christian-bubble\/","title":{"rendered":"Breaking Out of the Christian Bubble"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div><h2>Private evangelical Christian schools can be dangerous. I should know; I\u2019m finishing my last semester at one as a seminary student.<\/h2>\n<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-52710  alignright\" src=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2020\/03\/Breaking-Out-of-Christian-Bubble-e1583376284133.jpg\" alt=\"Breaking Out of Christian Bubble\" width=\"526\" height=\"336\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2020\/03\/Breaking-Out-of-Christian-Bubble-e1583376284133.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2020\/03\/Breaking-Out-of-Christian-Bubble-e1583376284133.jpg?resize=300,192 300w, https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2020\/03\/Breaking-Out-of-Christian-Bubble-e1583376284133.jpg?resize=768,491 768w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 526px) 100vw, 526px\" \/><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t like them. I\u2019m actually very grateful for the education I have received at my university. In fact, I would do it all over again! <em>But there is risk involved whenever a Christian chooses to go the route of private evangelical schooling. Here, we call it the \u201cBubble.\u201d<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong>Life in My Christian Bubble<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The meaning of the &#8220;Christian Bubble&#8221; is not hard to recognize. Students who attend these schools tend to live in a world where <em>everyone is Christian<\/em>, at least nominally. We create this utopian society inside a bubble, and have very little contact with people in the outside world. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This hit me one day during my second year. <\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>Here I was, studying in seminary with <em>a bunch of evangelical Christians<\/em>. I worked remotely for a ministry with <em>a bunch of evangelical Christians<\/em>. I went to church every week with <em>a bunch of evangelical Christians<\/em>. I had been living in Los Angeles for over a year, and I still did not know <em>one person<\/em> in the city who was not a Christian! Los Angeles!!<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I do not blame the university for a moment. This was on me. I needed to realize that a private school was not going to spoon-feed me everything I needed to <em>live faithfully<\/em> as a Christian. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After all, our purpose on earth is not <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">just <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Bible studies and fellowship with other Christians until we go to Heaven. <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">God has called us to make disciples everywhere (<a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/matthew\/28-19.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Matthew 28:19<\/a>), to preach the word in season and out of season (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.bibleref.com\/2-Timothy\/4\/2-Timothy-4-2.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2 Timothy 4:2<\/a>). Jesus said that we are <em>to be the \u201csalt\u201d of the world<\/em>, and we dare not lose that quality (<a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Matthew+5%3A13&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Matthew 5:13<\/a>). He goes on to say that we are <em>to be the &#8220;light&#8221; of the world<\/em>, and we would be foolish to keep our light covered.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><strong>There is a temptation to soak in all this knowledge of God and keep it for ourselves. There is a temptation to think that life inside our nice utopian bubble <i>is <\/i>the Christian life. But this is far from the truth. For students attending private Christian schools, we need to be even more intentional about our calling <em>to live as ambassadors in a world that is not our home<\/em> (<a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/2_corinthians\/5-20.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">2 Corinthians 5:20<\/a>).<\/strong><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><strong>Breaking Out of My Bubble<\/strong><\/h2>\n<p><strong>Once I realized this, I grew desperate. I felt complacent on the inside, <em>but biblically I knew that I needed opportunities to experience community with non-Christians.<\/em> I needed to carve out a space in my schedule to interact with people outside of my Christian bubble.<\/strong><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">As a full-time graduate student holding a part-time job and volunteering at my church, this was not easy. But I went online and searched for community groups in the south Los Angeles area. I discovered a website called <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Meetup<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">, which connects people with local communities all around the world. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was shocked to discover how many different social communities exist in my area through Meetup! <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I ended up joining a group that gathered to play board games that made it explicit that it is a safe space for people with same-sex attraction. I have never been huge on board games, nor do I have same-sex attraction, so this sounded perfect! <em>People who were not like me! <\/em><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Admittedly, I was nervous on the first day I met with them. <em>As they were friendly toward people with same-sex attraction, how would they respond to an evangelical seminary student??<\/em> As it turned out, they were very welcoming! <\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I learned a lot about same-sex attraction from these members, which helped me to understand their community. And I enjoyed building friendships with them, though I was only able to stay with the group for a couple of months, as shifts in my life pulled me away. <\/span>I would have liked more opportunities to deepen these relationships and eventually share my faith more explicitly. But I believe God still used that time.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p><b>Sometimes we can be a light <\/b><b><i>by simply sharing that we are Christians, and then not acting like it\u2019s our job to fix people who simply need a loving friend.<\/i><\/b><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>Does Your Bubble Need Busting?<\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many of you can relate to these Christian bubbles we inevitably find ourselves in, even if you don\u2019t attend a private Christian school. I would encourage you to venture beyond your bubbles through Meetup or another social app. What are your hobbies or interests? There\u2019s probably a group for them near you. <\/span>Go for it! Get to know people. As you do, I believe God will create opportunities for you to show them Christ.<br \/>\n&gt;&gt; Read how the <em>Bubble<\/em> can be used as a positive force <a href=\"https:\/\/chimesnewspaper.com\/22145\/opinions\/words-wise-biola-bubble-positive-force\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">here<\/a>.<br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&gt;&gt; Ready to get involved in your local community? You can create a <\/span><strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.meetup.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Meetup<\/a><\/strong><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> account.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&gt;&gt; Need some tips and creative ideas for sharing your faith? <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/ready-hear-good-news\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Check out my earlier post<\/a><\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">.<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">&gt;&gt; Looking for an inexpensive way to gift a book about Christianity to your friends? You can purchase Josh&#8217;s apologetics classic, <em>More Than a Carpenter, <\/em>in a 6-pack or more from <a href=\"https:\/\/store.josh.org\/product\/more-than-a-carpenter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">our online store<\/a>.<br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<h3>I\u2019d love to know your thoughts. Share your comments below!<\/h3>\n<hr \/>\n<h5>Matthew Tingblad is a communicator at Josh McDowell Ministry with a seminary education from Talbot School of Theology.<\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Private evangelical Christian schools can be dangerous. I should know; I\u2019m finishing my last semester at one as a seminary student. It\u2019s not that I don\u2019t like them. I\u2019m actually very grateful for the education I have received at my university. In fact, I would do it all over again! But there is risk involved [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23327,"featured_media":52710,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"As we go through life, can we stay in our safe Christian bubble. But is that what Christ asks us to do? 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