{"id":55614,"date":"2020-07-17T04:32:45","date_gmt":"2020-07-17T09:32:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/?p=55614"},"modified":"2025-08-06T12:50:11","modified_gmt":"2025-08-06T17:50:11","slug":"joy-of-the-lord-how-get-it","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/joy-of-the-lord-how-get-it\/","title":{"rendered":"What is the Joy of the Lord? Can We Have it?"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div><h2><span class=\"s1\">\u201cThe joy of the Lord is my strength.\u201d<\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">If I hear a Christian occasionally use this expression, I always notice, as it&#8217;s not a statement often said. Certainly nowhere near the frequency of, say, &#8220;God is good!&#8221; or &#8220;Jesus loves us.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">I think this is because Christians often struggle with joy. We know we&#8217;re supposed to feel it, because of Jesus, but life is often hard. Like <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/like-peter-get-out-boat\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Peter<\/a>, who only momentarily walked on the water at Jesus&#8217; invitation, we sink when we shift our eyes from Him to our problems. <\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Perhaps &#8220;stressed out,&#8221; &#8220;worried,&#8221; and &#8220;fearful&#8221; more aptly describe us most of the time. But <\/span><span class=\"s1\">the Bible says that the <strong>&#8220;<\/strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/nehemiah\/8-10.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><strong>joy of the Lord<\/strong><\/a>&#8221; is <em>the<\/em> <em>reality we can continually experience<\/em>. So why aren&#8217;t we? <\/span><span class=\"s1\">In Googling for answers, I gleaned insights from stay-at-home moms, professional writers, and pastors (including this impressive 1871 sermon by <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.blueletterbible.org\/Comm\/spurgeon_charles\/sermons\/1027.cfm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Charles Spurgeon<\/a><\/strong>, the &#8220;Prince of Preachers&#8221;). <\/span><span class=\"s1\">If, like me, you want consistent joy in your life, read on.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_55842\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-55842\" style=\"width: 404px\" class=\"wp-caption alignright\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2020\/07\/joy-of-the-Lord.jpg\"><img alt=\"majesty\" fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-53230\" src=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/wp-content\/uploads\/sites\/607\/2020\/07\/joy-of-the-Lord.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"404\" height=\"269\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-55842\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Bridging the Gap blog #hurthealedwhole<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span class=\"s1\">For 50+ years, <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/about-us\/joshs-bio\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s2\">Josh McDowell<\/span><\/a> Ministry has been leading seekers into a deeper knowledge of God\u2019s truth and power. We offer you our accumulated knowledge and <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/resources\/apologetics\/research\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s2\">research<\/span><\/a> to help you find truth and encouragement to live a healthy and whole life in Christ.<\/span><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2 class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\"><b>Defining Joy<\/b><\/span><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">The dictionary defines joy as \u201c<i>feeling<\/i> great delight with present or expected good.\u201d But some of us think we can&#8217;t have joy if we&#8217;re <em>not feeling<\/em> happy. So let&#8217;s clear up the difference between the joy we&#8217;re able to generate on our own &#8212; and the joy we gain from Jesus.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s3\">In one of his sermons, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/tb6ijN1Qn30\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Pastor John K. Jenkins, Sr.<\/a> <\/strong><\/span><span class=\"s1\">points out that the joy of the Lord is a bubbling up of contentment we feel from being connected to God. It is entirely unrelated to enjoyable circumstances. Only this <em>supernatural<\/em> joy, adds Jenkins, can give us \u201ccalm delight in the midst of hell\u201d and a \u201ccheerfulness even when life isn\u2019t cheerful.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong><span class=\"s1\">Real joy &#8212; a fruit of the Holy Spirit &#8212; is a supernatural transaction we experience with God. It&#8217;s the soul-deep assurance that helps us to face cancer &#8230; bankruptcy &#8230; the end of our marriage &#8230; even our COVID-19 loneliness &#8230; because we know that Jesus is carrying us through it.\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Francis Chan, Christian speaker, author, and founder of <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/crazylove.org\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Crazy Love Ministries<\/a><\/strong>, reminds us that Philippians 4:4 calls Christ-followers to <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/philippians\/4-4.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">rejoice in the Lord always<\/a>. <\/strong><\/span><span class=\"s1\">\u201cDo people see you as a rejoicer?&#8221; challenges Chan. &#8220;That you\u2019re always praising the Lord?\u201d <\/span>No pressure, Francis! If we&#8217;re going to get there, friends, we must <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/world-got-you-down-habits-that-help\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">create daily habits<\/a><\/strong> that keep up plugged into God&#8217;s supernatural power.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">&#8220;Nobody is immune from heartache or suffering or regret and depression,&#8221; notes <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/candacepayne.me\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Candace Payne<\/a><\/strong>, the stay-at-mom who, overnight, found herself a social media celebrity after she posted a video of herself <em>laughing with delight<\/em> over her <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/OT3MVRv0TT4\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Chewbacca mask<\/a><\/strong>. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">Her video has been viewed more than 200 million times, for the simple reason that Candace&#8217;s joy and belly laughs are so contagious.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><span class=\"s1\">Having struggled with depression in the past, Candace is now so joy-focused that she&#8217;s written several books on the topic, which she shares with live and online audiences. <\/span><span class=\"s1\">&#8220;When life hits you, defiant joy stands up and fight backs and refuses to let negative circumstances define her,&#8221; says Candace. &#8220;<strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.gospelherald.com\/articles\/71591\/20171109\/chewbacca-mom-overcame-suicidal-thoughts-depression-found-lasting-joy-exclusive.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Defiant joy<\/a> <\/strong>finds her identity, her worth, in Christ.&#8221;<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\"><strong>So how do we, like Candace, add the joy of the Lord to our daily lives? We can start with the following three steps.\u00a0<\/strong><\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2><span class=\"s2\"><strong>Step One: We Abide in Him<\/strong><\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span class=\"s2\"><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/psalms\/16-11.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Psalm 16:11<\/a> says, <em>&#8220;You will make known to me the path of life; In Your presence is fullness of joy; In Your right hand there are pleasures forever.&#8221;<\/em> Step one, friends, is smack dab in the middle of this verse: we are to get before God in <\/span><span class=\"s2\">prayer and worship.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"border: 2px solid #cccccc; background: #d7d7d7; padding: 18px; color: #1a2c63; text-align: left;\">What is prayer and worship? Is it hours on our knees, speaking with the formal &#8220;thee&#8221; and &#8220;thou&#8221; of the King James Bible translation? Sure, if that&#8217;s your style. But God&#8217;s not particular; He just wants our focus and humble hearts. So prayer and worship can be our silent convo with God while we&#8217;re on the bus to work. Our singing to Him as we feed our baby a bottle. Our appreciating His woods as we take a walk. Our dancing so loudly to praise music that our dishes rattle. Our looking skyward during lunch, to thank Him for providing yet another meal. When it comes to our one-on-one God time, we get to think outside the box. God is all ears, on all frequencies, 24\/7.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Yet we can be guilty of seeking God <em>only<\/em> when we need or want something from Him. As Christian teacher and author <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/CJKpC4ZJ8L8\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Joyce Meyer<\/a><\/strong> notes, \u201cIt\u2019s amazing how much time we have for God when we\u2019re desperate.\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Life is crazy hectic with full schedules, draining jobs, endless bills, interrupting phones, and demanding relationships. That&#8217;s the reality of our modern world, says <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/billygraham.org\/story\/will-graham-on-sitting-quietly-with-god\/?utm_source=bgeatoday+06.18.2020&amp;utm_medium=bgemail&amp;utm_campaign=bgemailnewsletter&amp;utm_content=BY206ES2A&amp;SOURCE=BY206ES2A\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\"><span class=\"s4\">Will Graham<\/span><\/a><\/strong>, grandson of the evangelist Billy Graham. And, he adds, &#8220;it can be difficult to tap the brakes and slow down when we try to<strong> <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/wwjd-during-these-hard-times\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">spend quiet time with God<\/a><\/strong>. We\u2019ll race through a short passage of Scripture and our list of prayer requests, keeping one eye on the phone to make sure we don\u2019t miss that text from the boss. I commend you for taking time to spend with the Lord, but I encourage you to meditate on the words of <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/psalms\/46-10.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Psalm 46:10<\/a><\/strong>: \u2018Be still, and know that I am God.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">This feels awkward if we&#8217;re new to the habit of meeting alone with God. After all, why would the <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/youtu.be\/w2Yh4exnBU0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Great I Am<\/a><\/strong> wanna hear from us? Because He&#8217;s our loving Heavenly Father! He made us; He even knows the number of hairs on our head. Don&#8217;t parents delight in their kids wanting to spend time with them?<\/p>\n<h2><strong><span class=\"s1\"><span class=\"s1\">Step Two: We Spend Time in Scripture<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">Fess up: Do you know your Bible well enough to find <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/biblehub.com\/john\/3-16.htm\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">John 3:16<\/a><\/strong>, <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Romans+8%3A38-39&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Romans 8:38<\/a><\/strong>, and the other promises God has for you?<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Some Christians read their Bibles often, marking the text with pens and highlighters. They regularly get into God&#8217;s Word to <em>know<\/em> what it says, so they can <em>live<\/em> it out. Other Christians never crack open a Bible, not realizing what they&#8217;re giving up.<\/p>\n<p style=\"border: 2px solid #cccccc; background: #d7d7d7; padding: 18px; color: #1a2c63; text-align: left;\">If you don&#8217;t read the Bible, why not? Perhaps because you tried reading a passage or two and decided it was boring? Certainly, some parts of the Old Testament are a bit dry, but they&#8217;re included because they&#8217;re historically important. But there&#8217;s no way you can call the New Testament boring. It teaches us about our Savior! To fall in love with Jesus, we have to <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/deity-of-christ-true-or-false\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">get to know Him<\/a>. To get to know Him, let&#8217;s start with the truest, most historically vetted source: <a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/is-the-bible-fact-or-fiction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">God&#8217;s Word<\/a>.<\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">The Bible is not a dusty work of fiction, but timeless wisdom still very applicable to modern life. Do you have a problem with knee-jerk reactions? Memorize <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=James+1%3A19&amp;version=NIV\">James 1:19<\/a><\/strong>: <em>Be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to get angry.<\/em> Are you often tempted to gossip? Study <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Proverbs+16%3A28&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Proverbs 16:28<\/a><\/strong>: <em><span id=\"en-NIV-16869\" class=\"text Prov-16-28\">A perverse person stirs up conflict, <\/span><\/em><span class=\"indent-1\"><span class=\"text Prov-16-28\"><em>and a gossip separates close friends.<\/em> This verse reminds us why God cautions us to set a guard over our mouth. <\/span><\/span>Do you have a spending habit? Lack integrity? Struggle with being generous? The Bible has plenty to say about each issue, to help you overcome them <em>so they don&#8217;t overcome you.<\/em><\/p>\n<h2><strong><span class=\"s1\"><span class=\"s1\">Step Three: We Live for God<\/span><\/span><\/strong><\/h2>\n<p class=\"p1\">By connecting with God, and knowing what He says to us in <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/is-the-bible-fact-or-fiction\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">His Word<\/a><\/strong>, we begin to desire to please Him with our thoughts, words, and actions. It is in Him that we find our roadmap for joyful living. So why do we tend to be drawn to following how the world tells us to live? Let&#8217;s do a short comparison to identify which voice should have authority in our lives.<\/p>\n<p style=\"border: 2px solid #cccccc; background: #d7d7d7; padding: 18px; color: #1a2c63; text-align: left;\">The world tells us that it gets to define who are &#8220;winners&#8221; and who are &#8220;losers.&#8221; <em>God reminds us that only His high opinion of us matters.<\/em> The world tells us that self-focus guarantees our &#8220;best&#8221; life. <em>God reminds that in having a servant&#8217;s heart we truly live.<\/em> The world tells us that nothing is free, and to not expect second chances. <em>God reminds us that His love has no strings, and that He&#8217;s the architect of unlimited comebacks. <\/em>The world tells us to be perfect to be accepted.<em> God reminds us that our growth is what matters to Him.<\/em><\/p>\n<p class=\"p1\">Clearly, the world cares very little for us. But God loves us so much that He died for us. He wants us to be &#8220;all in,&#8221; living firmly rooted in His strength and wisdom. Let us, then, daily chase after a deep connection with Him, so that we <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/fruit-bearing-a-backyard-parable\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">bear good fruit &#8212; including His supernatural joy<\/a><\/strong>.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<h2>NEXT STEPS:<\/h2>\n<p>&gt; Do you want to have a relationship with Jesus? Start <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/resources\/spiritual-growth\/know-god\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">here<\/a>.<\/strong><br \/>\n&gt; Want to receive daily devotions to spend time with God? <strong><a href=\"https:\/\/josh.org\/resources\/sign-up-for-daily-devotions\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Sign up today<\/a><\/strong> to get them in your inbox.<br \/>\n&gt; We invite you to read Josh&#8217;s book, <strong><em><a href=\"https:\/\/store.josh.org\/product\/more-than-a-carpenter\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">More Than a Carpenter<\/a>. <\/em><\/strong>This short apologetics classic highlights historical evidence of Jesus.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Sheri writes and edits for Josh McDowell Ministry.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cThe joy of the Lord is my strength.\u201d If I hear a Christian occasionally use this expression, I always notice, as it&#8217;s not a statement often said. Certainly nowhere near the frequency of, say, &#8220;God is good!&#8221; or &#8220;Jesus loves us.&#8221; I think this is because Christians often struggle with joy. We know we&#8217;re supposed [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":23327,"featured_media":55842,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"The joy of the Lord is the continual joy and calm we can experience, when we draw close to Him. 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