{"id":89875,"date":"2024-09-12T07:00:21","date_gmt":"2024-09-12T12:00:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/?p=89875"},"modified":"2024-09-12T09:42:54","modified_gmt":"2024-09-12T14:42:54","slug":"sharing-jesus-with-the-apathetic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/sharing-jesus-with-the-apathetic\/","title":{"rendered":"Sharing Jesus with the Apathetic"},"content":{"rendered":"<div id=\"bsf_rt_marker\"><\/div><blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201cWell, I\u2019m kind of indifferent toward Jesus. I think he was a good moral teacher, but he really has no impact on my life. I\u2019m just trying to be a good person and I\u2019m ok with that.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Not long ago I was introduced to some new friends and the topic of Jesus came up. I asked if they had any spiritual beliefs, and the quote above was one response. It seems that most of my spiritual conversations, and many that I watch online end with, \u201cWell I\u2019m glad that works for you, it\u2019s just not for me.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">There is a growing spiritual apathy caused by the popular belief that all religions teach the same things, and lead to the same place. The resulting personal quest for fulfillment has been coined, <\/span><b>Apatheism: indifference towards religious and nonreligious beliefs.\u00a0<\/b><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Despite the growing apathy toward Jesus, many have attested that the person of Jesus portrayed in the four gospels is compelling. Jesus\u2019 compassion is attractive, His wisdom is cunning, and His teachings are persuasive. There are countless stories of doubters and skeptics who opened the New Testament and shared that it was the person of Jesus who drew them to the Christian faith. But there are still many who have not read any of the eyewitness accounts of His life and see no need for Him or Chrisitanity in their life. They are apathetic towards Jesus and His teachings.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><b><i>How do we share the truth of Jesus to someone who is apathetic toward Him?\u00a0<\/i><\/b><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Look for the anxiety at the root of apathy<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I was working in a coffee shop recently and a group of young adults walked in and sat at a table nearby. Their private conversation quickly turned public as everyone around us overheard one of the girls say, \u201cI just feel this anxious energy that I am not the good person I portray. I do all these things, and still have a negative energy about who I am. I mean I give to people, I help, I volunteer, put all this good energy into the world and still feel like I\u2019m not doing enough.\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Heather Havrilesky, a columnist for \u201cAsk Polly,\u201d in <\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">New York<\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> magazine wrote <\/span><a href=\"https:\/\/www.thecut.com\/2016\/07\/ask-polly-advice-lessons.html\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">an article<\/span><\/a><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> not long ago sharing that millennials who write to her \u201cfeel guilty and inadequate at every turn.\u201d I believe many of them simply don\u2019t know about the life Jesus offers. We can begin to share this by speaking into areas of anxiety.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding-left: 40px;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Related: <a href=\"https:\/\/sites-stage.josh.org\/main\/do-we-create-or-discover-our-identity\/\">Do we Create or Discover our Identity?<\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">An area of anxiety is a place in someone&#8217;s life where they are searching for goodness, meaning, purpose, freedom, or identity and despite being told by the secular world where to find it, they don\u2019t. The result is anxiety and disappointment when the expectations of personal fulfillment are let down. It\u2019s like the woman at the coffee shop who tried to volunteer, help and give to other people to feel better, but in reality still feels guilty and is still searching.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider asking a question like, \u201cwhat makes you feel most anxious about the direction of culture?\u201d or \u201cWhere do you most feel your efforts fall short in changing yourself? What kind of anxieties come from that?\u201d\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<h2><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Show how Jesus is better than \u201cbeing better\u201d<\/span><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Everyone knows there is something wrong with the world, and feels the need to \u201cbe better.\u201d There are an overwhelming amount of self help books, charities to get involved in, movements to champion that may appease some of the guilt we all feel, but in reality they will all fail to satisfy because they can\u2019t offer what Jesus does.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Speaking into areas of anxiety awakens a felt need for which only Jesus is the ultimate healer. Jesus offers a unique and unparalleled solution to our guilt, Himself. Instead of saying we need to perform, Jesus invites us to receive His love and trust in His payment for our sins on the cross. His death and resurrection provide appeasement for our guilt, and proclaim acceptance into our lives that fulfills.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Consider asking a question like, \u201cMay I share with you where I have found hope in the midst of anxiety?\u201d or \u201cAs a Christian, I\u2019m not immune from anxiety, but where \u201cbeing better\u201d and \u201ctrying harder\u201d had left me exhausted and defeated, trusting in Jesus has changed everything. Would you mind if I shared more?\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">For those who have no background in Christianity, many times they need to hear why Jesus matters to build the plausibility for the gospel. Many people who are apathetic toward Jesus simply need to hear the truth of who Jesus is and the life He alone offers.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u201cWell, I\u2019m kind of indifferent toward Jesus. I think he was a good moral teacher, but he really has no impact on my life. I\u2019m just trying to be a good person and I\u2019m ok with that.\u201d Not long ago I was introduced to some new friends and the topic of Jesus came up. I [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":50255,"featured_media":89878,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_acf_changed":false,"_seopress_robots_primary_cat":"none","_seopress_titles_title":"","_seopress_titles_desc":"Our culture\u2019s apathy toward Jesus has made it more difficult than ever for Christians to approach others about Him. 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